June 2026 - Erana's 16th, Tyrell's 29th Birthdays

Kage came home from his mission on June 2nd about 2:30pm. We greeted him at the airport. Then the next day about 8pm Leila came home and we greeted her at the airport. It was really awesome to see them home again after honorable service to the Lord. So cool they could come home a day apart. It didn't really seem like Leila was gone long. We were teary eyed. We took photos with her at the airport then went right over to the Stake Center where Brother Zullo, Stake 1st counselor released her. Leila has started going to carving with Mum. 

On June 6th, Erana is 16 years old. She's still our precious baby. She did really well in school and had good grades her sophomore year. She sang with a choir on Capitol Hill on her bday to record something for the 250th anniversary year of the US independence. We took her out to Chili's with the whole family.

On June 8th Tyrell and Alisa's baby had to be induced a month early because of a condition with high blood pressure Alisa had. She's a beautiful little girl named Senna. All went well with the birth. We visited them in hospital, the IHC one near Costco in Murray. Now we're grandparents, but it doesn't quite feel like it yet for some reason.

May 2026

Talofa Sis. Wihongi, 

Today is Wednesday May 6th. I have a migraine right now typing your letter. I just came from a Luncheon at Brio’s at Fashion Place Mall. Its for my nomination of ‘Outstanding Educator Support Professional’. Not sure if I wrote about it last time. But that’s a recognition I got from my school. Last night Dray opened his Mission Call and he’s going to Georgia, Atlanta mission, kinda the same place Dad served his mission. I was worried none of his friends would show up it was 8:28pm and it was going to start in 2 minutes, but nek’minut I see a sea of teenagers come outside on the deck lol.  Some of them I knew from school, they look more mature and older. 

Last Saturday on the 2nd, we had our ward ‘Day of Service’, I went and bought doughnuts for everyone’s breaky. Erana and I mainly weeded, we weeded Carol Boleys front yard and then went over to Bro. Lane’s home and weeded there. Afterwards we ate lunch at the chapel Bro. Skinner made his famous Smoked Pulled Pork, and we ate those in Hawaiian rolls, chips, cookies and water. In the afternoon Erana and I hosted our very first Pizza Poi Party. The Moleni girls came over, there was Aunty Liahona, Muggles, Evie, Elsie, Ana etc I can’t remember their names. There were about 8 of them. 

Erana's Mothers Day Talk

Good morning and Happy Mother's Day, my name is Erana Wihongi and I have been asked to talk about the Heavenly virtue of patience.

In Elder Uchtdorf's talk, Continue in Patience, he says that, “...patience is not passive resignation, nor is it failing to act because of our fears. Patience means active waiting and enduring. It means staying with something and doing all that we can—working, hoping, and exercising faith; bearing hardship with fortitude, even when the desires of our hearts are delayed. Patience is not simply enduring; it is enduring well!”

Before I chose the topic of this talk, my dad said my mum has no patience, so I don't know if that says something about my mum or my dad.

If you don't know who my mum is, she's the woman with a cool accent and sometimes even cooler glasses. She was born and raised in Hastings, New Zealand, surrounded by her older sisters and cared for by her mum while her father was serving their country in the Vietnam war.

​We often think of patience as a quiet, unending well. But if I look at my Mum, I realize that the most honest lesson in patience isn't found in perfection—it’s found in the reality of the struggle.

​My Mum is both the best and the worst example of patience in my life.

​Every time she does lose her cool, she always does the one thing that matters most: she always apologizes and she always gives me love.

There was this one time when I was getting ready to go to a show. I had picked one outfit and then got upset when my mum suggested I should wear something else when time was already wearing thin. While I got upset, my mum remained patient with me, saying and suggesting other things to calm me down. 

She has taught me that you can be human, you can make mistakes, but you always lead with love and you always come back to repair the bond.

In Elder Uchtdorf's talk, he had added that impatience is “a symptom of selfishness. It is a trait of the self-absorbed. It arises from the all-too-prevalent condition called ‘center of the universe’ syndrome, which leads people to believe that the world revolves around them and that all others are just supporting cast in the grand theater of mortality in which only they have the starring role.”

Being impatient is a human thing, but the natural man is our enemy, and so instead strive to be patient. 

Strive to be like the Lord, who is the prime example of patience.

While he had been persecuted and wronged in His days on earth, he had remained steadfast in doing the will of Heavenly Father.

He had been crucified, and instead of getting angry at the people, He had cried unto his Father, saying, “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.” Luke 23:34.

Like everything in the gospel, having patience can bring lasting blessings.

Hebrews 6:12-15 say, “That ye be not slothful, but followers of them who through faith and patience inherit the promises.

13 For when God made promise to Abraham, because he could swear by no greater, he sware by himself,

14 Saying, Surely blessing I will bless thee, and multiplying I will multiply thee.

15 And so, after he had patiently endured, he obtained the promise.”

When I was a baby I had 2 Moms, my Mum and my oldest sister Mina but my Mum nicknamed her Mima, because she loved to take care of me. Recently my sister Mina had been trying for a baby, and had to endure the trial of a miscarriage. But with patience and faith in the Lord, she was finally blessed to have a baby girl due in July. 

In President Monson's talk, Patience--A Heavenly virtue, he said, “Another who portrayed the virtue of patience was the Prophet Joseph Smith. After his supernal experience in the grove called Sacred, where the Father and the Son appeared to him, he was called upon to wait. At length, after Joseph suffered through over three years of derision for his beliefs, the angel Moroni appeared to him. And then more waiting and patience were required. Let us remember the counsel found in Isaiah: ‘My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.’”

But even with Christ's example and the blessings in tow, having patience can still be hard.

So how can you have patience when it gets hard?

Alma 38:4 says, “...and thou didst bear all these things with patience because the Lord was with thee…”

Not only that, but President Monson also said to “Let the scriptures be your guide, and you will never find yourself traveling the road to nowhere.”

I know that my Savior loves me, I know that the church is true, I know that the scriptures can guide us in our lives, I know that if we put Christ first than everything else will fall into place and we can learn to be patient through Him, I know that with patience we can endure well to the end, I know that families can be together forever, and I know that Heavenly Father gave me a mother who loves me very much. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

April 2026

 Talofa Sister Wihongi,

Today is Monday April 13th. Last night I couldn’t sleep, because of jetlag from Japan. I don’t know why I couldn’t sleep. Anyway now I’m at work (school) subbing, and it’s been a good day so far. I will probably go home and conk out. We spoke to you yesterday, that’s when you told us about your lice you have -eww! No worries, Mum and Dad had lice when we were little in New Zealand. Here’s what we did in Japan, short version: 

Japan Family Adventure: April 2026

Day 1 & 2: April 1st (April Fools’ Day) – The Journey Begins

4:30am: Arrive at airport

7am SLC → 9:58am HNL 

3 hour layover

1:00pm HNL → 5:10pm HND (April 2nd)

Flew from Hawaii to Japan. April Fools’ surprise: Erana finally realized we weren't actually heading to Orlando for Spring Break! A very loooong day, a 6-hour flight from SLC to Hawaii, followed by another 9 hours to Japan. By the time we landed, my ankles were swollen. And they stayed swollen the whole time due to all the walking we did. After landing in Japan the airport was "kkraazzee", we navigated the Keikyu Line to our Airbnb in Sumida-ku. Exhausted but excited, we ended our first night with a classic Japan experience: a 7-Eleven run for snacks and munchies - chicken balls, spicy chicken, custard cream puffs, onigiri, lollies, ice-cream.

Day 3: Disney Sea – Politeness & Playfulness:

6:00am Wake up and get ready/Konbini Run for breakfast

7:00am Head to Maihama station (44min)

8:00am Arrive to Tokyo DisneySea (Adults around $74 and Teen around $61 via klook. $10 - $17 for lightning lane per ride)

9:00am Doors Open, it was crowded! 

We tried getting premier passes for rides but had issues with our bank, mum had to call the bank so the payment on our cards can go through. It was annoying. The first ride they got a pass for was Journey to the Center of the Earth ride. We walked around mostly and tried different treats. They liked the gyouza dog. Because of the issue with our cards, I had to call to get their second passes for the tangled ride. After disney, we went back to the airbnb on a bus that stopped at the mall by our airbnb. We walked into the pokemon center store and looked around a bit at the mall. Did another konbini run

• Cleanliness: Hardly any rubbish bins to be found, yet the streets are spotless.

• Etiquette: The trains are incredibly quiet. At the park, the "lines" were more like chaotic bunches of people, yet everyone remained polite and patient.

• The Vibe: Japanese people love to wave while you’re on the rides! Also, the dress standards are so high, everyone looks so cute and put together.

• The Disney Sea App does not play well with foreign Visa cards. So frustrating, we only could pay for one ride, and it was the Journey to the center of the earth, which was a lot of fun.

• Public toilets with bidets and they play music or rushing water sounds to hide the bathroom noises. 

Day 4: Shrines, Samurai, and Shopping:

8:30am Head to Samurai Museum 

9:30am Be at reserved time at Samurai Museum ($28 per person) 

The Museum was a little cheesy but still learned interesting facts about the history of the samurai

10:30 Walk around Asakusa Shrine -Asakusa nishi-sando shopping street for treats. It was crowded and rainy. We bought food by the food stalls near the shrine. And had our umbrellas up most of the time. 

1pm Head to Harajuku/Meiji Shrine

We walked down to meiji shrine and it was a rainy peaceful walk in the middle of bustling Tokyo. Afterwards, we ate at a ramen place at the beginning of takeshita street. Then still had to rest feet afterwards. We didnt go down takeshita street. But we saw the Harry potter store

Afterwards, we retired to the airbnb and skipped going to shibuya and shinjuku. Early night at airbnb to rest

• History: Toured the Samurai Museum and finally learned why people here walk on the left side of the street. Tane and Erana made it to the champion round of the throwing stars, but blew it at the end against a Dad who had twin sons - he made them proud.

• Asakusa: Strolled through Asakusa Shrine, they had some food stalls right next to it. We ate some cabbage and meat flat bread, takoyaki, fish pastry filled with cheese and another filled with custard.

• Nishi-sando shopping street for local treats. Navigating the open markets in the rain was an experience—we were all cramped together, dodging everyone else's umbrellas while trying to see the stalls. Umbrellas aren’t allowed in stores even when closed, you have to leave your umbrellas at the front entrance of stores, if you want to look inside.

• Ramen: To take a break out of the rain, we went to eat at a Ramen restaurant near the end of the market street. It was so nice getting out of the rain and just relaxing eating our amazing ‘Ramen’ bowls. 

• KDRAMA SCENE: Coming out of the Ramen restaurant the ground was uneven and I began to fall over, stammering trying not to fall. I was able to turn my body around and reach out my hand to Jay and not saying anything but thinking in my head, ‘PLEASE grab my hand, because if you don’t I will fall’. I’m pretty sure my face said it all and luckily he read my mind and grabbed my hand and saved me - Yay, my hero! 

• Retail: Shopped at Uniqlo, you need to remove your shoes if you want to try anything on. 

• Harajuku: Visited the Meiji Shrine, looked at a very small anime art gallery, and checked out the Harry Potter store. Bought Erana a Harry Potter long sleeve top that had Harajuku, Japan on it. 

Day 5: From Tokyo to Osaka:

6:30am Check out of Airbnb and head to Tokyo Station (30 min)

7:00am Have breakfast at the station and find the gate. Buy ekiben

8:00am - 10:30am Shinkansen Tokyo Station to Shin-Osaka Station($107.14 each, paid)

10:45am made our way to Osaka castle (36min train ride) We put our luggage in some coin lockers on the Osaka Castle garden grounds and walked to the castle. The cherry blossoms were beautiful.

3pm Head to airbnb (40min train ride)

4:00pm check in Airbnb at Taisho-ku and leave luggage, head straight to 

Solaniwa Onsen spa/rest day ($10 bathing tax still need to be paid) chill. 5pm private onsen for mum and dad

Had a fun relaxing time at the onsen. Tane, Erana, and I just did the footbaths, ate at the restaurant, and walked around while mum and dad had their private bath. Then ate again at the restaurant when they were done. Went to airbnb at night

• First Impressions: Osaka feels different—not quite as pristine as Tokyo, with a bit of trash on the ground, and interestingly, people here walk on the right!

• Exploration: We had to put our carry on bags and back packs in lockers at the park. Visited the iconic Osaka Castle, the museum, and the gardens. Bought gifts and souvenirs. 

• Checked into our Airbnb in Taisho-ku. Two rooms upstairs with a single bed in one and two double beds in another. Kitchen, couchbed, bathroom and toilet downstairs.

• Relaxation: Ended the day soaking at Solaniwa Onsen. Jay and I got some much-needed alone time in a private spa room. Soaking our sore muscles and feet was heaven. We loved wearing the Japanese robes (yukata). After our time was up we joined the others and ate a delicious meal, watched a little bit of entertainment with guys doing skits, but we couldn’t understand them.

Day 6: Temples, Waterfalls, and Daruma

7:30am Head to Tour Meeting Spot ($55.75 per person)

8:30am Meet at Kani Doraku Dontonbori East Branch 

-first tour bus stop was at a Yodogawa Seiwari Cherry Blossoms area, it was a long beautiful strip of cherry blossoms

-Second stop was at Uji, a city known for their Matcha. It was an older looking town with many shops by a river. We also walked through Byodo-in temple, the temple on the 10 center coin

-3rd stop was Katsuo-ji temple, a temple in the mountains with many daruma dolls. It was very beautiful and we walked around to different stamp stations to make a postcard.

-4th stop was Minoh Falls. It was a steep walk to the falls, saw a wild monkey in the trees on the way there. Our tour guide HuaHua was fun

6:30pm return to Dontonbori

Had yakisoba and Okonomiyaki and walked down dontonbori strip

• Spiritual Sites: Visited Byodoin Temple in Uji, where the town is really old and they make ‘matcha’ or green tea. We got a strawberry ice-cream, because the other flavor to everything in this town had ‘matcha’ lol. That’s when we were talking with Leila on the phone. 

• Katsuo-ji Temple it’s famous for the thousands of Daruma dolls that are tucked into every corner. They are so dang cute and they were absolutely everywhere! At the start, we were given a postcard to carry through the grounds. As we explored the historical monuments, we found six different stamp stations; by the time we reached the end, we had a completed picture of the Daruma dolls to take home as a souvenir.

• Hiked to the beautiful Minoh Falls, and saw a wild monkey in a tree on the walk there.

• The Highlight: Our guide, Huahua, sang to us in multiple languages! We capped it all off with dinner and market exploring back in Dotonbori.

Day 7: Universal Studios Japan:

7am Wake up eat brekkie

7:30 leave Taisho St. to Universal City St. (30min) 

Universal Studios (Paid)

Had fun at universal studios, mum, dad, and erana had express passes for 4 rides. It was a little Sprinkle rainy that day. 

After being at the park all day, everyone rested at the airbnb while tane and I went to shinsekai

A massive day at USJ. Erana and I went on the Harry Potter motion ride. And then joined up with Jay, Mina and Tane in the Broom Restaurant. We got hot butterscotch and a butterscotch treat. Both of those made it too sweet, but it was yummy. By the end, Jay, Erana, and I were totally wiped out—too tired to join Mina and Tane when they headed off to explore Shinsekai!

Day 8: Kyoto Highlights & The Return to Tokyo:

Kyoto

Check out at 9am

Take train to Kyoto (1hr train)

• Dropped bags off in a locker at the train station.

• Went to Nijo Castle , it was less busy than we thought. Walked the grounds and went inside the castle of Tokugawa shogun

• Took a bus to Nishiki Market and bought some wagyu beef sticks and other food . Then made our way back to Kyoto station for the bullet train

6:01pm - 8:08 Kyoto to Shinagawa Station to Kamata Station 2 hr 32 min ($101.64 each paid)

Check in to Kamata Hotel in the evening, konbini run 

• Explored the stunning Nijo Castle.

• Wandered through the "Kitchen of Kyoto," Nishiki Market. Ate ‘wagyu’ meat on a stick $$$ and other tempura treats. 

• Travel: In the afternoon, we headed back toward Tokyo, traveling from Kyoto to Shinagawa, on the ‘Tokaido Shinkansen’, bullet train and eventually settling into our hotel in Kamata.

Day 9: Final Farewells:

Spend all day in Kamata

Bought clothes at GU and rested at McDonald's and also bought treats at Donki. 

6pm leave Keikyu airport line to airport

Be at airport at 6:30pm 

9:20pm HND → 10am HNL (april 9)

***7hrs hour layover at the airport

7:11pm HNL → 5:25am SLC (april 10)

Our last day! We spent the entire time in Kamata doing some clothes shopping at GU, a sister store to Uniqlo. They had some really nice quality clothes for cheap and us girls spent over an hour in there, trying things on. This time we were given a head cover, so makeup wouldn't get on clothes. We had one last delicious feed at a small restaurant where you order from a tablet, food was yummy. We walked over to an arcade across from Donki and I was videoing and then tripped at the doorway because the floor level rose and I fell on my hands and scraped my knees and banged my head on the wall. A guy saw me and I was embarrassed. Jason was in the arcade and saw someone falling from the side of his eye and was hoping it wasn’t me, lol. We took our very last subway ride (thank goodness, lol!) to the airport and finally flew to Hawaii. We tried to go to Pearl Harbour but decided not to, due to the bad weather and just didn’t want to bother with everything. We aren’t very adventurous. It was a long lay over and we just chilled by our gate. Jay and I sat in the seat massages and got a nice massage. It was good to get home from that day of traveling, and to go to bed. 

4/10/26 - Back Home

We got home and went to bed at 8am and woke up around 3 or 4pm and stayed in bed another couple hours. We were wiped out. Went to sleep at about 3am then had another long sleep and lazy day. It was nice to sleep and lounge around for a couple days before getting into the swing of things again. I think we adjusted faster in Japan to the time change than we did returning to Utah. Tyrell and Alisa came over Friday and brought us In N Out burgers for dinner. We showed them our treats and talked about our trip. I gave Jaxon a paint job in the kitchen and said to finish it before we came back, but it wasn’t finished. All the lower cupboard doors are off and he still needs to paint those.

Friday 17th, Erana performed a Tahitian dance from Tausala, for her Seminary Talent Show. It was early in the morning and I went and filmed her, she was AMAZING! 

Saturday 18th - Went to Uncle’s and did some carving, my tewhatewha and patu. I went and had lunch with my Hiona buddies, it was Ali Sitake’s Birthday. I went and picked up Keala and then we went to ‘Tucanos’ in Orem. We were on time and everyone was late. There was Cher, Karen, Monica, Shallyn, Keala, Ali and I. The food was yummy!

Other’s things that happened this month was, been going to Uncles after work on Monday and Tuesday to do my carving. Went to the dentist, no cavities. Our garage door broke and had to get fixed, we upgraded to 2 springs instead of 1. We had one spring and that was what broke. Made Homeless Lunches for our YM & YW combined activity. 

Saturday 25th - Hiona did a show for Julia Prime and her Widow/Widowers church community. We did good, except the girls messed up the boys with Tika Tonu and chanted it wrong… anyways ate some yummy Luau food there.

March 2026

3/1/2026

Talofa my Sister,

Sorry i havent been the best at emailing. I am just exhausted all the time with my stake calling, work, and being pregnant. I am 19 weeks pregnant today and my tummy is getting bigger. My first trimester I only felt a little nauseous but never threw up. I just got headaches, sleepy, and hungry most of the time. I want to tell you a sweet story about my husband, I also want to write it to you so I have this memory to keep lol. Yesterday, we cleaned our house and went shopping to find some maternity garments but the Deseret store ran out of them. Then we went shopping at Ross and Smiths to buy a couple things. Then we went home and I only had an hour of rest before I had to leave to drive 40 min to Downtown SLC to take Drayden's dance photos. (Being pregnant makes you so tired fast) when we got home, mum called me and said i forgot to pick up some hangi plates that she bought from our bishop Seamus. So I had to rush and pick those up and come back home for only 20 min. Anyways, when I got home from picking up the hangi, I started crying because I didn't want to do the photos anymore and drive all the way there and all the way back. I'm just too tired to do anything. So I was crying getting my camera stuff ready and Tane came to comfort me and he fed me the hangi by the spoonful. He said something like "It's okay baby, I can come with you downtown. I'll drive, and then we can get a treat afterwards. I know you are tired so I'll come with you" But I said he doesn't have to do that (because I'd feel bad to waste his evening) He kept feeding and comforting me and then I felt so thankful and blessed to have him that I started crying harder hahaha🤣 then he was like "No, I'll come with you babe." he is so sweet to me. So he drove me all the way downtown and he sat in the car for an hour while I took Drays photos. And then after we went to check out scheels so I can try on some walking/hiking sandals for our trip soon (I wanted hiking sandals because my feet will most likely swell up from being pregnant). And he bought me new Teva sandals♡ Then we went to look at another place for maternity garments but they were out too. Then we ended our night with our treat from Culver's. My treat turned out to be a whole meal🤣 and he got a concrete. I'm so blessed that he always comforts me whenever I cry. He never ignores my tears or makes me feel like a burden, he never complains when I cry. I love him so much, bbygirl and I have the best daddy/hubby♡ every night before we sleep he'll kiss my tummy and mumble "goodnight my babygirl" into my tummy lol I am lucky to have a golden retriever husband. Anyways, I will probably no longer take photos for awhile since there's too much on my plate.  In my stake calling, we've had ward conferences every week since Jan-End of March. So every week we visit sisters in need and have trainings and stuff almost everyday. Then I help teach 2nd hour at ward conferences on Sundays sometimes. I work 10 hrs monday-thursday and get off at 6pm and then would have to go to a visit/training right after working so it's been tiring. But I enjoy it sometimes. I just wish I had more time to rest. Oh ya, I also try to fit the gym in as much as possible because I hardly move my body around with all this going on. So anytime I can squeeze going to the gym with Tane, I'll take it. How you doing sis? Hope all is well and you are loving the work. Take a moment to soak it all in and be like "wow. Im in samoa serving the Lord. Soon I'll look back on these days and miss it" so stay positive and keep shining your light! I love you and so proud of you! Xoxoxoxxo 

-Mina

Talofa Sister Wihongi,

There was drama at our first Kapa Haka practice, kinda awkward lol Got a quote for Botox for my TMJ. Decided to get it since I got sick after we came back from St.George and it hurt really bad. A dental office quoted me $1800, he was really nice and seemed to know a lot. I made an appointment but later I thought about it and since Botox only last maximum of 6 months I decided not to do it. I then found a Botox place, an Asian one that’s next to King Buffet and went there and an Asian young girl nurse quoted me $300, so I got it with them. Now I’m seeing if it helps. Erana played with her friends Friday evening and got pizza. Dad and I went to the temple and did sealings, then we went and ate at Hwa’s, since we haven’t been there for a while. We just get the same thing, Pork bulgogi and japchae, it was yummy! Went and did some carving with Uncle yesterday. Dad has been busy with his calling, he helped a member move last Saturday, and has endless meetings. He hasn’t been able to upload his next album onto Youtube. I’m patiently waiting for his ‘Cosmic Crew’ album to be uploaded to Youtube. Sunday, Jaxon, Erana and I went to Vintricks baby girl blessing, her name is Silivia. It was a Samoan ward in West Valley. Sat with Kelly Settle, her husband is the Bishop. Kelly and I talked about BYUH, cause her son is going in the Spring,he got the Hukilau scholarship and will be working in the Maori village. It was good seeing all Vintricks family, Jaxon went and ate with them at Chuckarama’s. Baby and I went back to church, cause she and her counselors got set apart for Youngwomen older class presidency, she’s the President. 

Love Mum & Dad xxx

Talofa Sister Wihongi, 

It’s been a while since I’ve updated. Friday March 6th, Dad and I went to Stan Moleni’s Retirement party at Embassy’s Suites in West Valley. A lot of Molenis there of course, Mina and Tane not lol Had some yummy food, bbq chicken, ribs, rice, maori bread, curry. Live poly’s playing electric guitars and singing. Sunday 8th, Dad spoke in sacrament for our ward Conference, he gave a good talk. He didn’t save any time for Bishop. He got a lot of compliments, his talk was ‘Spiritual Preparedness that Pres. Nelson taught us, especially for the 2nd coming’. 

Had ‘Spirit Week’ at school before Spring Break. Been busy substituting for teachers and covering the front desk. Which is a lot of fun and a nice change, plus I get paid more for substituting. Dad and I going out eating every Friday, date night, went to Hwa’s, King buffet, and Rollz. Been having Kapahaka on Thursday, preparing for Living Traditions, learning a new song, Karanga by Tawaz, it’s a nice song. Molenis girls have been coming. And being the secretary is keeping me busy as well. 

Right now is Monday March 23, I’m on Spring break (Murray District), I went and dropped of Erana and Sawyer at school, then went to Uncle Richards to do my carving. I came home and ate and then went to look for carry-on's for our Spring break trip with Erana, Tane and Mina. Dad’s been trying to take Erana driving every Sunday, she needs to learn how to turn properly, she’s turning too fast, she needs to slow down. 

Erana's Sacrament Talk

Live Up to Your Privileges

Good morning everybody, my name is Erana Wihongi, and today I have been given the opportunity to speak on Sister Emily Belle Freeman's talk, “Live Up to Your Privileges” from General Conference October 2024.

When you hear the word privilege, what do you think of? For me, I think of a wealthy or well-off person. 

Well, the real definition of privilege is someone of a particular group with a special right, advantage, immunity, or benefit.

Sister Freeman in her talk often emphasizes that understanding and wielding priesthood ordinances and covenant promises will help us access God's power, and that is her version of living up to our Privileges as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and specifically as women part of the church.

Sister Freeman says, “Priesthood ordinances and covenant promises allow God to sanctify us and then work wonders in our lives. But how does this happen?”

She goes on to say that we must first manifest God's power from ordinances through the authority from the Son of God. The way I interpret this is that as a girl, I can learn from the example of my father who has the priesthood and has shown me bits of its power every time I am blessed for being sick, whenever I get a calling at church, or at the beginning of every school year.

The second step on this is that we don't just make covenant promises, we must keep them.

A few Sundays ago in my young women's class, my mum taught a lesson on covenant promises and I learned how a covenant with God is two-way and that God will always keep his promises. Knowing God always keeps his side of his promises, to me, is encouraging and lets me know he'd never leave me. It also means that every time that a covenant is broken, it is because of me, but because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ, I can repent and start over again. And again as you strive to keep your covenants with HeavenlyFather, he will bless you.

Even knowing these things, Sister Emily Freeman still wondered if she fully knew how to access the gift of God's power through priesthood ordinances and if she recognized how God's power worked within her.

Sister Freeman also talks about Emma Smith and her duty in Doctrine and Covenants section 25. Reading this section, the Lord tells Emma right off the bat that she is His daughter, and that all who receive His gospel are his sons and daughters, part of his kingdom. I really love verses 2 through 4 which say:

“2 A revelation I give unto you concerning my will; and if thou art faithful and walk in the paths of virtue before me, I will preserve thy life, and thou shalt receive an inheritance in Zion.

3 Behold, thy sins are forgiven thee, and thou art an elect lady, whom I have called.

4 Murmur not because of the things which thou hast not seen, for they are withheld from thee and from the world, which is wisdom in me in a time to come.”

Emma must've also wondered the same things of her duty and place in God's plan that Sister Freeman wondered, and she also must've been scared or lonely at times as she had also lost her baby boy at this time. But these three verses from God assure her that as she keeps on walking on His covenant path, He will preserve her life and she will receive an inheritance in Zion. That he has forgiven her and sees her as an elect lady, elect meaning he has chosen her. And in the final verse, I would personally find it comforting that I do not have to worry about things I don't know yet, but that God knows these things and I can trust that He'll also let me know them when the time is right.

The Lord gave Emma purpose and she grew to learn her place in His plan, and through revelation learned about sanctification and covenant connection that would increase the priesthood ordinances working in her life. Her work in the Restoration was great as a daughter of God, and she learned how to recognize and use the priesthood to her advantages on His covenant path. Truly, living up to her Privileges.

I know that just like Emma, through the priesthood and the covenants I make with God, He can transform me into the person I need to be to have my eternal destiny. I know that I am a daughter of God and that I am also a disciple of Christ. I know God loves me and He has shown me that every time I turn to him each day and each week. And I also know that as a daughter of God, I can wield the priesthood and do good in these latter-days.

And in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

February 2026 - Mum's 51th Birthday

 2/23/26

Talofa Sister Wihongi, 

Monday 2nd, Erana and I went to another concert but at TVille High with ‘James Thorup’. It was a bit cringey. What was nice the first person that performed first was Ben Taylor, I thought he looked familiar and the name sound familiar. Well it turned out that I was right, it was Mina’s friend from High School and she had made a music video for him, he sang a nice song. 

Friday February 13th, Dad, baby and I went back to St. George to stay there till Monday. Baby and I had a long weekend off from School. And had no plans so we decided to go and stay with Uncle Shaun & Aunty Christine again, since last time was too short. We got an ice-cream at the Cheese Factory in Beaver. When we got to St.George, I made Curry Chicken dinner for everyone. Shaun took, Dad and Baby to get some dessert, they came back with bananas, ice-cream and toppings to make banana splits. We went to one of their condos hot tubs and lounged there for a while. They have firepits too, we sat around one, it was hot. Saturday morning after breaky we went with Shaun to the Main pool area to make Valentines gifts, we made heart finger print key chains and magnets. Then we went and picked up Gracie, and went to visit Maddie and Nephi, and the new baby - ‘Saint Mahia’. They have a nice home, Ziah and Dad were bonding, playing with playdoh. Later Shaun, Christine, Dad & I went to Mesquite to have the All You Can Eat Seafood Buffet. The buffet was ok lol, Shaun and I mainly just ate the Crab legs, they were yummy. We went to the same hot tubs again and relaxed.

Sunday went to their ward sacrament, it was packed full of visitors. Shaun and Christine stayed for classes, we came home with Gracie after sacrament. Connor and Jamie, they work on Sundays, they both seem to be work-a-holics. Christine made a yummy chuck roast dinner, with roasted potatoes. Monday we had breaky and then packed up and came home. While I was driving home I noticed I was getting sick. Tuesday I was sick, I was having bad allergies sickness. Congested, sinus, runny nose, like I usually have BUT I also had sore achy muscles and my tmj in my jaw was painful. So I put a hot bean bag on my jaw…. and didn’t know till Thursday afternoon that I had burned my skin on my face from the hot bean bag. Wednesday I didn’t go to work or to our YW activity, I was still too sick. Thursday I substituted for the Librarian and Science. Thursday was my 51st birthday, Dad, Tyrell, Alisa and I went and ate at The Cheesecake Factory. I ordered spicy ginger beef tenderloins, Dad had Steak Diane, Tyrell got shrimp gumbo and Alisa got 5 cheese pasta. Dad got me a slice of mango and lime cheesecake. When we got home, we used it for my birthday cake, Dad bought be a neck massager (Christine had the same one). Jaxon bought me a candle and a can opener. Saturday I tried cleaning and de junking, ended up putting our leather couches on FB Marketplace and in the afternoon, some guy came and took them away - that was quick!. Now I have to go find a new couch and chair for our room. On Sunday we celebrated my birthday again, I had tried to make the same dinner Jay got, Steak Diane. But I used chuck roast, and it turned out yummy. Mina and Tane bought me a bag of New Zealand treats, and Tyrell and Alisa made me a pavlova. Monday after work I took a nap, still my jaw has been painful. Scott and Heather came over with a mango cake from Tous Le Jour, and Scott gave me $50.